Imperturbable with equilibrium ....
Posted May 04th, 2015
We need to instil a "permanent memory", one that lights up like fireworks, if our children are ever inclined to disobey.
Obedience and respect are not obtained by using proper consequences, but are obtained by proper attitude. As in being calm, self-possessed, straightforward and matter-of-fact. We must be.....unflappable.
People keep saying that my husband and I are fortunate that our children are well-mannered .... We are not relaxed because we are blessed with "easy" children .... our twins are easy, because they are relaxed ....